Perfectionism kept me on pause!!! 💕💋
Only true perfectionists glorify perfection in the context of what I do or how I show up in the world and on social media.
Here’s the most honest truth I can share with you regarding the biggest mental shift in my life ….
The most grandiose reframe that created freedom in my life was the realization that perfectionism kept me on pause, in overwhelm, unfulfilled and in the state of frequent worry and anxiety.
This is how most women relate to me, especially the ones that read my book Worthy and know the underpin of my entire mission and purpose for being online and coaching other women back to their personal power.
Perfectionism is directly connected to the feeling that we’re not enough as we are therefore continuously trying to prove our worth and value to others around us.
This is what I recode with majority of women I work with in my four-week program Worthy. You start appreciating your value, your uniqueness and your sense of worthiness is reprogrammed back to...
You don't need a permission! 💕💋
Let’s get some things straight -
“You deserve it” is not a compliment. You don’t need to earn it to deserve it. You’re undeniably worthy without earning it!! You already know it and obviously you deserve it. Nobody needs to grant you permission to be D E S E R V I N G of it.
You don’t need a third party approval on your dreams. You declare it for yourself.
You know it, you feel it, you BE it.
Love. Malgosia (Margo)
Validation 💕💋
It’s so hard believing in yourself and your mission when you don’t see as much ‘validation’ as you’d like. As a society, we’re addicted to validation.
On one hand I totally get this need for validation, it’s some sort of a proof that our human ego needs…
But when you really feel like you need that proof are you unworthy without it?
I know my worth, my value and what I bring to the table, therefore as much as I like it and it absolutely thrills me to be loved and liked for my pictures, I don’t need it. I DESIRE something deeper - recognition and acknowledgment once I’m seen.
I’m the one, as you are the one for yourself, and I remember that and I roll.
See that little nuance between these 2 states of being?
One is desperate and unsure and the other one is welcoming and simultaneously stands in her power.
And as always -
Stay fabulous!
Love. Malgosia (Margo)
Getting from A to B 💕💋
Women I work with sometimes ask me why it takes so long to get from A to B while creating that unique version of dream life they desire …
Most things we create are happening on a subconscious level. We don’t need to focus or think about it. Our beliefs of what we can or cannot are running the whole show. In that regard, subconscious creation is effortless.
But do we get what we want?
It depends on what we believe we can have. We often think we affirm our best life but the truth is we want it and in the moment of doubt or worse day we completely negate it, and therefore the vibration we send is not consistent at all.
So think of your thoughts and see what’s there, and what you’re really manifesting on a daily because it creates a compounding effect of what you truly believe you can have.
And as always …
Stay fabulous!
Love. Malgosia (Margo)
Sometimes it's Silly 💕💋
Unshakable confidence and unwavering trust in yourself is what makes you famous.
The question is -
Do you actually want to be famous?
Because it’s not everyone’s dream.
Hand on my heart, I’m one of those people who have this inner conflict. I’m a healer. I’m not after fame but at the same time I realize that fame can create powerful influence, tremendous impact and domino effect of transformation and goodness in the world.
It might seem silly to some, but as I’m here on the verge of deciding which way to go - loud or quiet with my message and my book - I see both worlds I’m considering creating. One will keep me still pretty anonymous and, in my bubble, meanwhile the other will require of me big expansion and rearrangement of some of my beliefs regarding fame.
Which way I choose?
Each time I step up my own game, the world around me shifts.
I can’t even count how many times I already stood at this intersection.
The first time was...
It's much easier to Criticize than to Praise 💕💋
However, when we are seen and appreciated, it makes us so fabulously happy, right?
It builds us and boosts courage to spread the wings and reach for our dreams.
It doesn’t cost a thing to be kind. It should be normal but it’s not common.
It’s not easy because we’re programmed to see negativity and in our yet undiscovered sense of unworthiness, our lens is focused on noticing same things in others.
But …
If there is a contrast in what you see while looking honestly at the situation despite the jealousy and judgment, is there something that inspires you?
Then take it as an invitation to expand and realize that if it’s possible for her, it’s possible for you. The only difference is the clarity on your dream and another itsy bitsy piece ….
You guessed what it is?
Freaking UNWAVERING self belief!!
Easier said than done?
Absolutely but how powerfully rewarding!
That’s what I do with my private clients, my program Worthy and all my...
Stop Diluting Your Message! 💕💋
Your message is your truth!
It’s your heart, your soul, your unique beat. I used to do that being concerned about people who don’t get what I’m saying. Trying to ‘convert’ them and explain myself. Now I’m seeing things differently, more clearly and it opened up more channels for me. It liberated me in new ways, because there are always more layers to peel off. We do that throughout the entire life.
Again, there’s no perfection, only progress.
Today I know that my art is my art.
I’m proud of it.
I own it.
It’s not my job to make people understand me. You either do or you don’t and I’m fine with that.
It feels expansive and like I’m embarking on an advanced journey.
Last few days were so enlightening. So many new opportunities are coming my way…
And I’m ready for more revelations.
Ahh life is good when we dare to live with a heart open and in full integrity with our message and who we are beyond our...
Quick fixes... 💕💋
Quick fixes don’t exist!
You need to devote your time and make a commitment.
That dream lifestyle that you envision for yourself is available but it’s a compounding effect of all the choices you make.
And with each personal upgrade that you celebrate, you discover new layers of thinking patterns to recode that will allow you to fly even higher.
Stay fabulous.
Dream big.
And love with your whole heart -
Never forget …
Your worthiness is innate
Love. Malgosia (Margo)
Your Beauty Lies in Acceptance... 💕💋
Your beauty lies in acceptance of yourself.
Maybe it’s a new definition but since we talk so much about energy, it’s hard to avoid the topic of beauty and magnetism.
When you feel worthy and accept yourself, you emanate a different light of confidence and certainty. That light is energy. With this solid foundation the next step is inevitable - self love. You can’t jump to self love without feeling worthy first.
It will never be anchored to anything real … you will think of taking floral baths and lighting candles but the true self acceptance won’t be there. It’s a superficial fluff that some of us get to believe is self love. In reality it’s a crème de la crème of something that you already feel inside about who you are. It’s sprinkles on how you already feel about YOU and your capabilities to create your own version of dream life … AND how you embrace yourself on a bad day.
Tomorrow I’m welcoming my 47th...
Dream Big 💕💋
Just signed another book … the feeling is unmatchable and fills up my heart with so much joy and immense gratitude.
And each time a different message comes through for a dedication.
I remember in 2015 this was a dream and now it’s happening on repeat. It’s still completely organic but I trust it lands in hands of people who need this powerful activation to start living their best life!
Love. Malgosia (Margo)