Why I Avoid Phone Calls: Embracing Efficiency and Authenticity as an Introverted Projector:

I don’t like calling people on the phone, here, I said it!!!

The only person I call every day when I’m not in Poland is my Mom. But if I have to make phone calls, I put them all together in a block and my phone calls are very condensed and right to the point. When we’re face to face I can talk to you for hours, but calling on the phone needs to have a clear, laser sharp goal. Hello projectors in human design, this is the skill to cultivate - efficiency. Instead of working 40 hours a week I can work 15-20 with the same results.

I remember fighting this, calling it overwhelming, laziness and other names that are not loving and “self-accepting”, until I reframed it and saw it as a great gift and awareness on my side. I saw how naturally efficient I am. Meetings face to face are a pleasure, and phone calls are the tool for efficiency and regaining lots of time. Win win.

The message?

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Perspective on DUALITY... pain, gratitude and just ongoing EPIC love for life.

Yesterday, while I was shopping for jewelry, my favorite dainty necklace with my initial and a tiny diamond just broke in half … I was so sad and immediately put it in my wallet not to lose it. I thought to myself, why did this happen again? It just happened last year and I needed to go to the brand’s boutique in Warsaw to fix it. And then immediately I went to gratitude and thought how freaking lucky I was … this necklace broke in the store and I saw it happening catching it in my hand. Losing it somewhere on the street would hurt so much more, sentimentally at least.

Later on that day, we went to the party and once we got back home … I fell off the stairs while carrying sweatshirts to put them back in the closet. I was wearing long, loose, linen pants and lifted the fabric with my right hand so I wouldn’t trip. Needless to say, my toes looped into the fabric, I slipped and I tripped. Hurt myself terrib...

How Embracing Fun Can Transform Your Life:

In this enlightening podcast episode “Worthy & Free. This Affects Everything in Your Life Queen”, Malgosia Stanislawski emphasizes the profound impact of incorporating play into our lives. Reflecting on her own experiences. Margo reveals how daily play and fun not only boost her mood but also amplify her creativity and joy, affecting every aspect of her life. She advocates for a light-hearted approach to life, urging listeners to give themselves permission to embrace their inner joy and childlike wonder regularly.

Margo connects this practice to a higher spiritual and emotional state, where one can access 'sacred space vibrations' and explore new realms of imagination and creation. She stresses the importance of gratitude, which she notes has the power to significantly alter life's trajectory towards more abundance and fulfillment.

Additionally, Margo invites listeners to explore her personal development resources available on her website...

Unleash Your Inner Star: Claim Your Dreams with Confidence - Podcast Summary:

In this powerful episode of "You Are The STAR," listeners are encouraged to recognize themselves as the main protagonist in their life's journey, rather than settling for a supporting role. Margo passionately conveys that habitual self-doubt often relegates us to the background, but it's crucial to break these patterns by reclaiming our self-worth and stepping into the spotlight.

The episode underscores the importance of self-belief, confidence, and discipline in turning aspirations into reality. It introduces the "worthy" program, which consists of 22 sessions designed to instill new, empowering beliefs and transform subconscious thoughts to revive inner strength.

Listeners are urged to apply discipline to focus their minds and actively work towards realizing their dreams. The concept of personal freedom is linked to creating a unique, fulfilling life that aligns with personal desires and values. The ep...

Explore how Łódź, Poland, shaped my journey from childhood nostalgia to becoming a life coach. Discover my emotional, travel-infused path to personal growth.

Last night before falling asleep I opened my journal and started writing. To be completely frank with you, I always go through a mix of emotions when I come to Łódź, my beloved hometown in Poland. My family is here, and I spent my childhood in this place, that’s why it’s so close to my heart. It’s sentimentality, nostalgia. There’s an air of melancholy here that I’ve never experienced anywhere else.

On my flight from Chicago there was a group of American filmmakers that were visiting my hometown just for 2 days to make a documentary. Łódź is located in central Poland and is recognized for its internationally known Film School, art Nouveau architecture, and as a former center of textile industry. Lots of artists live here. Its face has changed so much through the years.

But back to the merit of this story …

This is the city of ...

Discover how blending discipline with freedom fuels happiness and fulfillment in life:

So much of my writing happens in the car somewhere on the road and I loooove that!!! If you’re not new to my world, you can easily see that everything in my life is underpinned with this feeling of sweet freedom, something that connects me to my soul clients in my private containers.

This is just a side note but here’s a story …

I left my Pilates class feeling so accomplished and good about myself. I love how my posture changes and I don’t have to even think of not slouching.

It’s become effortless to keep my spine straight.

I’ve always loved the way ballerinas hold their heads high with grace, so delicate and beautiful. Even though I was trying to imitate that as a child and then a young woman, it felt unfamiliar and strange in my body.

I know this for sure and you can check with yourself if that’s also true for you -

Feeling good about myself creates more happiness and fulfillment in all ...

Embrace Your Authenticity: Beyond Social Media's Illusion:

People are funny sometimes.

They think that they know everything about you just from seeing little curated slivers of your life on social media …

I control what I show and there’s a vast number of things I don’t share. This platform and social media in general is for me and not the other way around. I control what I see and what I share.

Same with my phone, it doesn’t control me and my time …

I have authority over that.

But some people forget …

Phones and social media took control over majority of their lives disconnecting them from reality.

When Facebook was down a couple of weeks ago I found out from friends …

I didn’t know, I was enjoying lunch with my friend in a real 3 D life setting.

Each time I feel like something or someone is trying to control me or manipulate my mind I turn the other way.

I’m not mainstream …

Never was.

Perhaps that’s why I magnetize so many gentle, artistic souls to my world, I d...

You are your BELOVED …

The sparkly star of your life …

When I look at my dainty diamond ring, I bought for myself at Tiffany’s in 2018 to celebrate my union with self, I remember thinking to myself that this brilliant stone is like a symbolic star that I admire on the indigo Californian sky … I lived there at that time and fell in love with that region and having access to the beach each single day. Basically, living on the beach …

I gifted myself this ring as a reminder of my commitment to cherish the love and acceptance for ME …

To have compassion for ME …

To embrace ME when it’s challenging and painful.

Loving yourself is easy when everything works out and you’re happy …

We associate it with lightness - bubble baths, flowers, chocolates, cuddles …

But when you face challenges, and we all do despite the social status, that’s the time when you need to honor this commitment to love yourself the most.

This journey to self-love is about deepening your understanding of what ...

5 Instant Mood-Boosting Hacks to Transform Your Day: Essential Oils, Sunlight, Gratitude, Dance, and Chocolate.

These hacks can change your mood and energetic state almost instantly!!

I was in a stuck energy yesterday and quickly managed to change my state turning the day around. I’ve created a little list for you as a guide to take you out of the lousy mood:

1. Smell your favorite essential oil - I love rose, jasmine, geranium
2. Look directly in the sun for a few moments to signal to your brain to stimulate vitamin D production
3. Journal on gratitude and all the things that you’re thankful for including the simplest aspects of present moment such as sun shine, a hug, I love you’s …
4. Now move the energy. Put your favorite music on and start dancing like nobody is watching or jump on a small trampoline (I acquired one during pandemic)
5. Eat a piece of dark chocolate or drink a high quality cup of hot cacao

Do it in that specific order !

As always ~

Stay fabulous while on you...